Passing through the flames of conflict in a healthy, productive way can strengthen a relational connection. It is possible to end up on the other side of conflict as more powerful individuals, freer to be yourselves, more confident in your love for each other, and more hopeful about your ability to meet each other’s needs.

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“We just can’t communicate.” The problem is as common as the common cold, and as surprising as an unexpected sneeze.

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A speech therapist invited me to make a presentation to a group of her clients. During the question and answer segment, a man across the room began stuttering to ask a question.

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How does the bond, that starts out so fresh, alive, vital and vibrant turn into a bind that feels so heavy, oppressive, suffocating, and exhausting in couple relationships?

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