A speech therapist invited me to make a presentation to a group of her clients. During the question and answer segment, a man across the room began stuttering to ask a question.

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How does the bond, that starts out so fresh, alive, vital and vibrant turn into a bind that feels so heavy, oppressive, suffocating, and exhausting in couple relationships?

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Suppose I am a Banker and you want to borrow one hundred thousand dollars from my bank. I say, “I’m glad you’ve come into my bank today because I have a hundred thousand dollars at only twenty-one percent (21%) interest with your name all over it.” Congratulations.

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If giving to and receiving from others based on fairness results in obligation, resentment, entitlement and emptiness, how do you prevent obligation, avoid resentment, eliminate entitlement and not end up empty inside?

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The Marriage Action Plan begins with Listening or emptying yourself of your agenda to know your partner. Triangles are the basic building block for all relationships and make up the road on which you are traveling.

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From the framework of Compromise, your point of view is THE standard, fear that your partner won’t meet your wants and needs is the underlying motivation to use LEVERAGE as the method of change and relationships are thought of as a ZERO SUM game.

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